ChristianKl comments on How to learn soft skills - Less Wrong

44 Post author: AnnaSalamon 07 February 2015 05:22AM

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Comment author: ChristianKl 08 February 2015 08:48:03PM 2 points [-]

Some of the books also contain statements that, as far as you can tell, are outright nonsense. One suggests that the only reason you or Fred have any problems is that you weren’t praised enough as children. You try on that perspective as well, but it feels yucky and nothing new clicks into place, and so you move along to the next part.

I don't think the problem with that statement is that it's outright nonsense. The problem is rather that it isn't actionable and doesn't tell you something you can do about the situation.

Comment author: PetjaY 22 August 2016 05:54:40PM 1 point [-]

Well not in current situation, but if you believe it then you that would teach you to avoid dealing with people who were not praised enough as children.

Comment author: ChristianKl 27 August 2016 08:37:19PM 0 points [-]

Well not in current situation, but if you believe it then you that would teach you to avoid dealing with people who were not praised enough as children.

I normally don't have good information about the childhood of people I'm interacting with and the amount to which they were praised.