People underestimate the gap between stated preferences and revealed preferences.
Everything is actually about signalling.
These two put together invite in me a sort of dysfunction. I have a stated preference for my stated preferences matching my revealed ones, i.e. genuine honesty over stated-preference-as-signaling. Yet it is highly likely that this stated preference itself is 1. inaccurate, and 2. signalling. And I treat both consistency and honesty as something like terminal values, so I find this situation unacceptable. That seems to leave me three options:
All of these alternatives seem horrible to me!
The brain fills in a false memory of what you meant without asking for permission.
Reference? This terrifies me if true.
All of these alternatives seem horrible to me!
The good news is that there are others. Stated and "revealed" preferences don't come out of nowhere, take it or leave it, choose one or the other. I use the scare quotes because the very name "revealed preference" embeds into the vocabulary an assumption, a whole story, that the "revealed" preference is in fact a revelation of a deeper truth. Cue another riff on this.
No, call revealed preferences merely what they visibly are: your actions. When there is a conflict between what y...
Abram Demski and Grognor
Much of rationality is pattern-matching. An article on lesswrong might point out a thing to look for. Noticing this thing changes your reasoning in some way. This essay is a list of things to look for. These things are all associated, but the reader should take care not to lump them together. Each dichotomy is distinct, and although the brain will tend to abstract them into some sort of yin/yang correlated mush, in reality they have a more complicated structure; some things may be similar, but if possible, try to focus on the complex interrelationships.