I wonder if Neoreaction bothers some people (David Brin, for example) because it pokes at the splinter in our minds: Neoreaction raises the possibility that people in the West have suffered from diminished lives over the past several generations because the Enlightenment Project threw out something we needed from the preceding traditional, hierarchical, patriarchal, aristocratic, tribalist, religious societies that modernity has supplanted.
Sometimes our minds suddenly "click" and we see a topic in a new light. Or sometimes we think we understand an idea, think it's stupid and ignore attempts to explain it ("yeah, I already know that"), until we suddenly realize that our understanding was wrong.
This kind of insight is supposedly hard to transmit, but it might be worth a try!
So, what kind of important and valuable insights do you wish you had earlier? Could you try to explain briefly what led to the insight, in a way that might help others get it?