Is it a problem that anyone has put significant effort into? What's the state of the evidence?
Now that I think about it, I'm a little surprised there isn't a subculture of people trying to excel at sex, sort of the way pickup artist try an excel at getting sex.
Is this because there is no technique for for doing sex well? Because most people think there's no technique for for doing sex well? Because sex is good enough already? Because sex is actually more about status than pleasure? Because such a subculture exits and I'm ignorant of it?
Because sex is good enough already?
Data suggest that a fair number of woman don't get orgasms during sex but the literature suggest that they could given the proper environment. Squirting in women seems to happen seldom enough that the UK bans it in their porn for being abnormal. But of course sex is about more than just orgasm length and intensity ;)
Because such a subculture exits and I'm ignorant of it?
Yes. In general one of the think that distinguish the pickup artist community is that it's full of people who rather sit in front of their comput...
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