atorm comments on Negative polyamory outcomes? - Less Wrong

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Comment author: atorm 06 January 2015 12:52:44PM 0 points [-]

Man, imagine if Eliezer or some other big name wrote "Bi-hacking" and LessWrong became known for all the deliberate bisexuals.

Comment author: DanielLC 07 January 2015 05:19:50AM 5 points [-]
Comment author: atorm 07 January 2015 01:07:50PM 1 point [-]

I wonder if that would work. Also, where is the compelling internal dialogue about the value of being bisexual?

Comment author: falenas108 08 January 2015 01:18:50AM 1 point [-]

There was definitely something Eliezer said about bisexuality being strictly superior because then you would just be attracted to more people. I was 16 and straight when I read that, and I wanted to be bi since then. Then, about 3 years ago, I became* bi.

*It's weird, but there was a definite point where I started being attracted to more than one gender.

Comment author: [deleted] 10 January 2015 08:29:36PM 4 points [-]

Yeah, this is possible. I did it a while ago because local status systems, then reversed it once I got out of those status systems and it was no longer useful.

Comment author: TheOtherDave 06 January 2015 04:57:34PM 0 points [-]

I'd be entertained. But I'd also be surprised.

In my experience a lot of people who identify (or are identified) as straight or gay are actually some flavor of bi and just "round themselves off" (or are rounded off by observers) for convenience or out of habit, but a lot aren't.

The former can choose to change how they identify and behave, and are sometimes happier for it; the latter not so much.