ChristianKl comments on Open Thread, Feb. 2 - Feb 8, 2015 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: RichardKennaway 02 February 2015 09:50:09AM 8 points [-]

On LessWrong, or on blogs by LWers, advice has been given on how to become bisexual, or polyamorous.

However, there is no advice on LessWrong for how to stop liking something. Yet there are many stories of people having great difficulty giving up such things as video games and internet distractions. It seems to be easier to acquire a taste than to relinquish it.

All the advice on resisting video games and the like (internet blockers, social support) has been on using tricks of one sort or another to restrict the act, not the desire. Even when experimenting with specific deeds, it is easier to try something in spite of aversion than to forego it in spite of attraction.

Are there effective methods of ceasing to enjoy some activity, or of refraining from enjoyable things? What presently enjoyable activities would you use them on?

Comment author: ChristianKl 02 February 2015 10:17:04AM 2 points [-]

For food items you can create distaste by mixing the food item with something that makes you throw up.

Comment author: Viliam_Bur 03 February 2015 09:22:45AM 2 points [-]

Or just start eating Soylent all day long. And have no other food at home. For a month.

It is easier to avoid eating something, if you simply do not have it at home. And if you live on Soylent, you don't even go to food shops.

This may be generalizing from one example, but it works for me. When I am on Soylent, my cravings for other food just somehow disappear.

Comment author: Mollie 03 February 2015 01:03:51AM -1 points [-]

This comment made me wonder if trigger warnings might have a place on Less Wrong. Probably not, because I suspect that the utility gains would not be worth the controversy of trying to change norms in that direction.

Comment author: JoshuaZ 03 February 2015 01:07:56AM 4 points [-]

This seems if anything like an argument against it: it isn't considered a commonly triggering issue. This shows one of the fundamental problems with trigger warnings: it is unclear and often highly subjective what should get such a warning.

Comment author: Mollie 03 February 2015 04:57:16PM *  -1 points [-]

I agree that "unclear and often highly subjective" are downsides to categories of content that warrant trigger warnings, but this exchange (below) would pretty clearly warrant a trigger warning for eating disorders if it was on a site that used trigger warnings.

Are there effective methods of ceasing to enjoy some activity, or of refraining from enjoyable things?

For food items you can create distaste by mixing the food item with something that makes you throw up.

Comment author: JoshuaZ 03 February 2015 05:17:18PM 3 points [-]

But if anything that actually shows how subjective this is and how much of an issue it is. It is one thing to say that trigger warnings should apply to issues that may involve PTSD. It is quite another thing to suggest that they should involve mentions of every possible mental health issue.

Comment author: ChristianKl 04 February 2015 01:02:47PM 2 points [-]

Did the comment trigger you in a bad way?

Comment author: Mollie 04 February 2015 09:21:54PM 2 points [-]

No, my eating disorder hasn't been an active problem for ~8 years. Thank you for your concern.

Comment author: MathiasZaman 03 February 2015 07:23:00AM 0 points [-]

Content warnings/notes for threads might be worth it (and not that hard to do, seeing as threads already support tags), but doing so for individual comments would be mostly annoying.