That depends on what is required to accommodate the two people.
Let's put it this way. Would you recommend he get psychological counseling for his delusion, or tell him that his map is a perfectly valid one and that how he(she?) feels about himself he is by definition correct?
Also, suppose the men wants to adopt a kid. Should he be able to? Should adoption agencies have the right to refuse him?
the deluded individual insists men on attending women's colleges and going to women's bathrooms.
This is an example that describes violating personal rights of others. Because of this example I believe I agree with you, however we disagree over what could/could not be permitted by reasonable liberties.
Unfortunately, these are examples of demands "transwomen" are making, and frequently getting in the US. Frequently backed up by state laws.
Would you recommend he get psychological counseling for his delusion, or tell him that his map is a perfectly valid one
I would do neither as both are examples of attempting to influence the world beyond the personal scope.
suppose the men wants to adopt a kid.
I have no knowledge of existing processes, but I assume somewhere it involves counselling or an evaluation as to whether the person is fit to parent. (some kind of massive paperwork process) If they pass such an ordinary process, then they should be able to do as they please.
Which is to say; y...
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