JonahSinick comments on How my social skills went from horrible to mediocre - Less Wrong

29 Post author: JonahSinick 19 May 2015 11:29PM

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Comment author: JonahSinick 21 May 2015 12:20:20AM 0 points [-]

Thanks. Do you think that the particular set of issues that I had is largely disjoint from that of most LWers? I know there are differences, but do you think that the overlap is too small for it to be relevant? The reason that I ask is that there may be parts of my posts are highly relevant and not yet salient, that I can make more explicit.

Comment author: shminux 21 May 2015 01:21:42AM 6 points [-]

I mentioned your post to a couple of people online who I found to be in the most dire need of a similar action, and their reaction was a complete misunderstanding and rejection. Here is the anonymized quote:

wtf is this s**t

his solution is "learn to be good at reading body language and reactions, find a group you have common interests with and interact with them a ton, get useful feedback from your social partners"

if I could do any of those i wouldn't have a problem

not to mention that his entire post is just a fucking humblebrag

"I'm so smart and good at deep thought others can't follow/remembering more about their lives than they do that everyone hates me"

So, unsurprisingly, the people most in need are the least likely to benefit. For the same reason you did not find the neurotypical feedback useful. The spectrum is wide and multi-dimensional, and those far from the center are not necessarily close to each other.

Comment author: JonahSinick 21 May 2015 01:36:39AM 2 points [-]

Thanks for the information.