chaosmage comments on European Community Weekend 2015 Impressions Thread - Less Wrong

19 Post author: Gunnar_Zarncke 14 June 2015 08:21PM

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Comment author: [deleted] 17 June 2015 11:42:10AM *  2 points [-]

Were you doing this hugs stuff that was mentioned in the thread about the last one? I wasn't there, but I wonder what is the point, this kind of sentimental, emotional stuff. Does this kind of emotional closeness help the exchange of ideas and information? I would think it is the opposite that helps it: being very impersonal, on surname terms and so on. I mean emotional closeness could faciliate exchange of the "X is really cool, just because I have good feelings about X" type, and you probably don't want it, you probably want exchange of the "X is really useful, because evidence" type and I would think some "coldness" helps more there. Or where did the idea come from? Was the opposite idea (distance, formality,surname terms etc.) tested previously?

However on a meta level I approve of tags, as they are Tell Culture and if they very idea of hugs and emotional closeness comes up at all, tell-culture is probably the only non-awkward way to handle it.

Comment author: chaosmage 17 June 2015 12:27:16PM *  4 points [-]

Yes, we had "free hugs" and "no hugs" tags available. The "free hugs" ones were way more popular. I think having neither meant "normal social conventions apply, i.e. ask".

Yes it helps a lot. You listen much more closely to someone you feel to be your friend, and hugs are very good at creating that feeling.