LessWrong comments on Rational approach to finding life partners - Less Wrong

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Comment author: LessWrong 17 September 2015 12:10:14PM 0 points [-]

Isn't what you're saying completely contradictory to basic decision theory? A possibility of a personal catastrophe in the future should not be ignored. Marriage introduces that possibility and non-marriage doesn't have it.

Comment author: Lumifer 17 September 2015 03:22:13PM 2 points [-]

You are privileging a particular viewpoint. Both paths have risks, costs and benefits.

Note that researching divorce laws before the wedding has a strong self-fulfilling prophecy flavour.

Comment author: LessWrong 17 September 2015 05:10:36PM 0 points [-]

You are privileging a particular viewpoint.

Explain this.

Comment author: Lumifer 17 September 2015 05:19:39PM 0 points [-]

You are assuming that being not married is the default state of being and any deviations from it must be justified.

Comment author: LessWrong 17 September 2015 05:22:50PM 0 points [-]

What? How?

Comment author: Lumifer 17 September 2015 05:25:47PM 1 point [-]

Marriage introduces that possibility and non-marriage doesn't have it

You are assuming that marriage just adds risks ("possibility of a personal catastrophe") without eliminating other risks.

Comment author: LessWrong 21 September 2015 10:46:22AM -1 points [-]

I think the risk is indeed not worth it. And as far as practical things go, marriage is just a simple contract; I'd guess that you can live happily without it, too

Comment author: Romashka 21 September 2015 06:47:07PM 1 point [-]

Define practical things.

Comment author: Lumifer 21 September 2015 03:14:25PM *  1 point [-]

I think the risk is indeed not worth it.

Sure, but is that anything more than your personal opinion?

marriage is just a simple contract

That is very clearly false.