Apologies; I get lost at step 3. Probably because I don't know stats that well. Hope this feedback helps.
I guess, what is meant by (I could be wrong though) is the joint probability distribution of X and Y which would look something like this but centered at the origin and there would be a surface where the height represents the probability density. (Also, ignore that the ellipse in this visualization is oddly rotated.) The contour lines are the ellipses you get by slicing the surface with a horizontal plane.
Because I'm tired and easily amused.