Viliam comments on Open thread, Sep. 14 - Sep. 20, 2015 - Less Wrong

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Comment author: advancedatheist 17 September 2015 03:26:35AM -1 points [-]

So how should I answer questions about my sexual history in a medical context?

I find it odd that gays and promiscuous women have become socially acceptable now, while incels with normal desires have become the freaks, weirdos and expendables. This has turned completely around from what people considered normal sexuality 50 years ago.

Comment author: Viliam 17 September 2015 08:43:32AM 8 points [-]

Men without families have always been considered expendable. The whole concept of army is built around that. I'm not saying it's right; I'm just saying it's old as history.

The new thing is that "having sex" has been completely divorced from "having a family", so now some stigma (less) is associated with not having a family, and some stigma (more) is associated with not having sex. It makes sense this way, because being unable to attract someone implies being unable to start a family. Again, I'm describing here, not making a moral judgement; I don't have a problem with people not reproducing.

It sucks to have low status. But it is stupid to needlessly tell strangers "hey, I have low status".