Dahlen comments on Instrumental Rationality Questions Thread - Less Wrong

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Comment author: NancyLebovitz 28 September 2015 04:32:59PM 7 points [-]

It's not as though men are reliably good partners, either.

If there's any good advice for identifying people who are likely to be reliable allies over the long haul (if they're treated decently), I'd like to see it.

Comment author: OrphanWilde 28 September 2015 06:34:16PM -2 points [-]

Offer them something you cannot afford. If they reject your offer, they will probably make good allies.

Comment author: Dahlen 04 October 2015 05:41:52AM 0 points [-]

Like an engagement ring? "Oh, you don't want to marry me, that makes you the perfect wife!"

Comment author: OrphanWilde 19 October 2015 06:02:28PM 0 points [-]

Not quite. A good ally is someone interested in your mutual well-being, and won't accept an offer that costs you more than it benefits them.

There are other ways of testing. That is my preferred approach.