I'm curious about the "sex" exception in "don't use your bed[room?] for anything except sleep and sex". It strikes me as unprincipled. Have they actually tested "doing this in bed is bad for sleep, doing that in bed is bad for sleep, doing the other in bed is bad for sleep... oh, but doing sex in bed is okay"? Does masturbation count?
I mean, it might be a case of anticipating "we have nowhere else to have sex, and we're not giving up sex" and making an exception so people will be more likely to follow it. But then I feel the better exception, at least for certain audiences, would be "don't use your bed for anything that you can conveniently do in other places, except sleep".
In general I would expect topics like this that relate to sex to be badly studied and there to be any taboo's that prevent good scientific work from happening.
If you seek a good alternative, I think that using a massage table for sex is great.
Leading up to this year's Australia megameetup, in the interest of improving people's lives in the most valuable way possible, I was hoping to include a session on sleep, sleep quality and sleep maintenance. With that in mind I put together A very long list of sleep maintenance suggestions.
Some of the most important take-aways:
- If no then fix it. This single thing will improve your life drastically. (also don't lie to yourself about this, research shows that people who are sleep deprived are bad at predicting how sleep deprived they are, if you are unsure; probably err on the side of caution. As a measure - if you turned off your alarms - would you be able to get out of bed at the same time every day?)
- not really. if it works - keep doing it. if it works most of the time but falls apart every Monday, then maybe its time to consider a different plan.
- depends if it works for you. Don't force yourself to do it if it, don't expect it to work for you. Feel free to try it; lifestyle is also relevant in considering this sleep implementation, (if you have a 9-5 job you certainly can't make it work, if you have a flexible life then maybe)
The list is best formatted here:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1PbjxWSy77JoaEKj_TEuH025EoIYZBqhjK-yApomJ6go/edit#gid=0
But is also included below for convenience.
take large dose of melatonin at the 'night' time of your destination, can do this several days in preparation
Meta: the original collection of this list took at least 10 hours; plus several other people's time to point out the quality of the suggestions. From deciding to post this to post-ready took 2 hours.
This post was finalised with the assistance of participants on the Slack chat.
My table of contents, includes other posts of mine that might be of value.
Thanks to Kat and AdamK for their help with this post.
As per usual; any suggestions are welcome, and improvements would be appreciated, and I hope this helps you. There will be a poll in the comments.