ChristianKl comments on The art of grieving well - Less Wrong

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Comment author: gjm 20 December 2015 09:56:23PM 0 points [-]

As a reference you might look at Brienne estimation that cured her crippling social anxiety in three minutes.

That isn't what she describes. She describes a lengthy process of contemplation and self-modification, whose last step happened very quickly.

Comment author: ChristianKl 21 December 2015 10:33:41AM 0 points [-]

Actually she does start by explicitly saying This post explains how I cured my social anxiety in three minutes. Of course again, as I said above you likely have no mental model in which that fits. When there's no mental model where that's a sensible thing to say, it's natural to read a post like Brienne's as saying something else.

Comment author: gjm 21 December 2015 02:23:33PM 4 points [-]

Actually she does start by explicitly saying [...]

Yes, indeed she does. And it makes an effective headline, in the same sort of way as "10 Cute Kitten Pictures! What happened next in #7 will shock you and restore your faith in humanity!" does (but for a somewhat different audience).

As for your repeated attempts (I think we're up to maybe five in the last few weeks) to pull the "of course your criticisms needn't be taken seriously because you just don't have the mental equipment to understand" move, see e.g. this.