Or because you and Jim are being tedious assholes nobody likes to hang out with

Given the most obvious way to taboo "tedious assholes" I don't see how this is different than what I wrote.

while going on about the same predictable set of not socially acceptable stuff for years

That's because no one has yet offered a good argument for why we are wrong. They've just done the equivalent of sticking fingers in their ears and going "na-na-na I can't hear you". Sort of like what Ilya and yourself are doing right now.

without having anything new and interesting to say after a while.

Yes, we do, maybe you'd notice if you didn't shut down your brain whenever you encountered a non-PC idea.