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“Stay away from what might have been and look at what will be.” ~Marsha Petrie Sue

a structured approach to help you think through problems and solutions in a logical way. There are six basic steps

Define the problem. Figure out what is causing the problem and how it’s causing problems.

Set goals. Decide what you want your solution to address. It’s important that your goals are realistic and concrete.

Think of solutions. Brainstorm possible solutions. You can also ask friends or loved ones for ideas.

Look at the pros and cons. Pick a few possible solutions that you think might work best, and consider the positives and negatives of your choices.

Pick a solution. Remember, it should describe who does what and what you want to achieve.

Evaluate the results. After you put your plan into action, see if it worked as expected. If it didn’t work, see if your solution needs to be modified or if you need to try a different approach.

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