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Does anybody knows who came up with that sentiment? I'm searching some good quotes that express the idea. Maybe there's a book or article that steelman's it?
Perhaps look at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alfred_Adler ?
Is there a specific quote from Adler about manipulation? Googling
"Alfred Adler" manipulationdoesn't give me good results.Given that Adler seems to be a theist, I'm also not sure whether he thinks that way.
He was the inferiority complex guy ...
... everything is about the struggle to gain power over others, which can become pathological ...
According to those quotes a lot of people are manipulative because of inferiority complexes.
That suggests that he only talks about some children and not all children. Some children are manipulative for those reasons but that doens't mean all of them are.
My understanding is that Alder thought we all start with an inferiority complex because we all start as small, weak children.
Even if that's true, I don't think it implies that all "All human interaction is manipulation". It only implies that a lot of it is at it's driven by an inferiority complex.
I think "all human interaction is manipulation" is false on its face. I was putting forward Adler as a candidate for being a modern root of this meme. His teachings are still quite influential.
The fact that you consider a statement to be false on its face doesn't mean that there nobody in support of it. Pointing me to a different meme is besides the point.
Please be a little bit more charitable. He pointed you to a quite relevant quote and gave examples. That this source doesn't exactly cover what you want covered is not his fault. He can't read your mind.