I still have no idea what "hostile to using references" is meant to mean.
It means you're unwilling to go to curi's website and read all he has written on the topic when he points you there.
Maybe. Though actually I have gone to curi's website (or, rather, websites; he has several) and read his stuff, when it's been relevant to our discussions. But, y'know, I didn't accept Jesus into my life^W^W^W^W the Paths Forward approach, and therefore there's no point trying to engage with me on anything else.
[EDITED to add:] Am I being snarky? Why, yes, I am being snarky. Because I spent hours attempting to have a productive discussion with this guy, and it turned out that he wasn't prepared to do that unless he got to set every detail of the terms of d...