TheOtherDave comments on Belief in Self-Deception - Less Wrong

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Comment author: artsyhonker 22 February 2011 11:17:42AM 3 points [-]

As a theist, I don't believe in God because I perceive some positive benefit from that belief. My experiences and perceptions point to the existence of God. Of course those experiences and perceptions may be inaccurate and are subject to my own interpretations, so I can't claim that my beliefs are rational. I accept on an intellectual level that my belief could be wrong. This doesn't seem to enable me to stop believing.

However, I am involved in a religious community because there are positive benefits -- chiefly that of being able to compare notes with other people who share my irrational belief in God and my desire to do good work in the world. I can see that there might be positive benefits in religious communities for non-theists, though I don't really see the point.

Comment author: TheOtherDave 22 February 2011 03:06:39PM 2 points [-]

I know several non-theists, including atheists, who belong to religious communities because they value the benefits that such belonging provides. It helps, of course, that they belong to the kinds of religious communities that welcome people like them.

Comment author: taryneast 29 March 2011 03:07:23PM *  2 points [-]

There are also plenty of non-religious communities that one can belong to. These also provide the "benefits of belonging" without having to be the odd one out (ie the person that doesn't actually follow the one major point of the community itself). Therefore I agree with artsyhonker in not seeing the point. I'd only consider it the rational move if there were no such other communities nearby (or none that were attractive).

Comment author: TheOtherDave 29 March 2011 06:25:55PM 0 points [-]

Sure. That makes sense, and if it weren't for my actual experience with people who do seem to get benefits from that group membership that they consider worthwhile, despite also being members of other communities, I would agree with this wholeheartedly.

Of course, it's certainly possible that they're all merely confused and not actually getting benefits they value, or that they could be getting all the same benefits from their other groups and somehow don't realize it.

Comment author: taryneast 29 March 2011 07:18:10PM 3 points [-]

Ah - no - you miss what I was trying to say. They definitely get benefits - not at all confused. I'll try and give an example to explain what I mean - and I'll leave religion out of it for the moment.

Lets say that near to me is the local football club, and the local wildlife-walks group. both of them have a thriving community and are welcoming and interesting people. Thus if I join either one I will be assured of the benefits of belonging to a community.

But lets say that I happen to have absolutely no passion for football, but really enjoy wildlife walks.

So - the rational move for me would be to join the wildlife group, in favour over the football club. not because there are no benefits to the football club, but because I would get even more out of being in a group where I share the passions and interests with the majority of members.

This is kinda what I was driving at. There's nothing wrong with an atheist joining a local christian group to gain the benefits of community... but if there's another local group that has the same sense of community - but founded around a principle that the atheist actually shares... then they'll probably get even more out of it.

Comment author: TheOtherDave 29 March 2011 08:36:23PM 1 point [-]

If, in that situation, I observed you evaluating both groups and choosing to join the football club, that observation would increase my confidence that you are obtaining something of value from the football club that you aren't getting elsewhere, even if I have no clue what that might be.

Comment author: taryneast 30 March 2011 10:34:54AM 1 point [-]

Yup, no argument here. I would be curious to know what it was.

Comment author: TheOtherDave 30 March 2011 01:58:32PM 2 points [-]

(nods) Me too. The impression I've gotten from conversations with my non-theist friends who belong to religious communities is that they provide a more close-knit and mutually committed community than their secular equivalents. This is especially relevant for those with children.

Comment author: taryneast 31 March 2011 11:15:56AM 0 points [-]

Yes, I've found that most (but not all) hobby-based communities tend to be fairly loosely constructed. People are expected to hang around for a few years, perhaps, but not really to contribute more than just some passing time.

Exceptions I've found to this rule are: ethnic/expat groups, parenting support groups, and (strangely) some geeky groups: SF/F (in certain cities), and the SCA.

The latter was my biggest surprise, when I joined. There a third-generation SCAdians... some of whom have a fourth generation on the way.

Comment author: wedrifid 31 March 2011 01:41:50PM 0 points [-]

SCA?

Comment author: Swimmer963 22 February 2011 04:29:15PM 1 point [-]

I was one of those people for a while. I was accepted, I think, because the particular group I hung out with had an overwhelming need to convert people, and couldn't resist a juicy atheist/agnostic specimen like me.

I also sing in a church choir, which is kind of similar except that it's explicit I'm there for the musical education and not the religion.

Comment author: TheOtherDave 22 February 2011 04:54:38PM 2 points [-]

the particular group I hung out with had an overwhelming need to convert people, and couldn't resist a juicy atheist/agnostic specimen like me.

Ah, that's unfortunate.

As far as I can tell, the religious communities my atheist/agnostic church-going friends belong to consider them full-fledged members of the community no more in need of alteration than anybody else, which seems like a much more honest arrangement.

Though, of course, I have no way of knowing for sure.