Well, your reply to me is much better. You exposed some flaws in my reasoning with actual arguments while being more polite even given the fact that my comment wasn't. That's what I like to see more of.

...which is still a wrong usage of the word...

I used that word before the way I indicated. Not that you are wrong...but I usually look up words at Wikipedia or Merriam-Webster and when the definition seems fit use them for my purposes. Sure, that's laziness on my side. But it might be useful to sometimes apply a bit of guesswork at what someone else could have meant on an international forum.

I'm much closer to being an outsider than you are.

I guess. I just can't identify with most people here so it's hard to see me as a part of this community.