Robin Gane-McCalla plans to organize regular OB meetups in the Bay Area. The next one is 8PM, November 17th, 2008 (Monday night) in Menlo Park at TechShop. (Note that this is a room with seating, not a restaurant, so we hopefully get a chance to actually talk to each other - though I'll try to stay in the background myself.)
Video might be tough to pull off logistically, but a podcast might be a lot easier. I think having an audio recording would be helpful on many levels, potentially.