@Vladimir:
It is an open question whether our values and our lives will behave more like you have described or not.
For a lot of people, the desire to conform and not to be too weird by current human standards might make them converge over time. These people will live in highly customized utopias that suit their political and moral views, e.g. Christians in a mini-world where everyone has had their mind altered so that they can't doubt God, can't commit any sin, etc. E.g. ordinary modern semi-hedonists who live in something like the Culture. (Like pi as a number we use for engineering: the digits after the 100th convey almost no new information)
For others, boredom and curiosity will push them out into new territory. But the nature of both of these emotions is to incorporate environmental noise into one's prefs. They'll explore new forms of existence, new bodies, new emotions, etc, which will make them recursively weirder. These people will behave like the co-ordinates of a chaotic system in phase space: they will display very very high sensitivity to initial conditions, chance events "oh look, a flock of birds. I wonder what it would be like to exist as a swarm intelligence. I know, I'll try it".
The only group of people who I can see behaving the way you want are scientists. We have an abstract desire to understand how the world works. We will alter ourselves to become more intelligent in order to do so, and we have no idea what we will discover along the way. We are surely in for surprises as big as the discovery of evolution and quantum mechanics. Each new level of intelligence and discovery will be truly new, but hopefully the nature of truth is an abstract universal invariant that doesn't depend upon the details of the path you take to get to it.
In essence, scientists are the only ones for whom long term optimization of our world has the kind of unbounded value that singularitarians want. Ordinary people will only get a limited amount of value out of a positive singularity. Thus their apathy about it is understandable.
(A shorter gloss of Fun Theory is "31 Laws of Fun", which summarizes the advice of Fun Theory to would-be Eutopian authors and futurists.)
Fun Theory is the field of knowledge that deals in questions such as "How much fun is there in the universe?", "Will we ever run out of fun?", "Are we having fun yet?" and "Could we be having more fun?"
Many critics (including George Orwell) have commented on the inability of authors to imagine Utopias where anyone would actually want to live. If no one can imagine a Future where anyone would want to live, that may drain off motivation to work on the project. The prospect of endless boredom is routinely fielded by conservatives as a knockdown argument against research on lifespan extension, against cryonics, against all transhumanism, and occasionally against the entire Enlightenment ideal of a better future.
Fun Theory is also the fully general reply to religious theodicy (attempts to justify why God permits evil). Our present world has flaws even from the standpoint of such eudaimonic considerations as freedom, personal responsibility, and self-reliance. Fun Theory tries to describe the dimensions along which a benevolently designed world can and should be optimized, and our present world is clearly not the result of such optimization. Fun Theory also highlights the flaws of any particular religion's perfect afterlife - you wouldn't want to go to their Heaven.
Finally, going into the details of Fun Theory helps you see that eudaimonia is complicated - that there are many properties which contribute to a life worth living. Which helps you appreciate just how worthless a galaxy would end up looking (with very high probability) if the galaxy was optimized by something with a utility function rolled up at random. This is part of the Complexity of Value Thesis and supplies motivation to create AIs with precisely chosen goal systems (Friendly AI).
Fun Theory is built on top of the naturalistic metaethics summarized in Joy in the Merely Good; as such, its arguments ground in "On reflection, don't you think this is what you would actually want for yourself and others?"
Posts in the Fun Theory sequence (reorganized by topic, not necessarily in the original chronological order):