I have sympathy with both one-boxers and two-boxers in Newcomb's problem. Contrary to this, however, many people on Less Wrong seem to be staunch and confident one-boxers. So I'm turning to you guys to ask for help figuring out whether I should be a staunch one-boxer too. Below is an imaginary dialogue setting out my understanding of the arguments normally advanced on LW for one-boxing and I was hoping to get help filling in the details and extending this argument so that I (and anyone else who is uncertain about the issue) can develop an understanding of the strongest arguments for one-boxing.
"Rock lost every time it was played "
"rock doesn't win when it is used means rock wins."
One of these things is not like the other.
Those aren't both things that I said.
For rock to lose consistently means that somebody isn't updating properly, or is using a failing strategy, or a winning strategy.
For example, if I tell my opponent "I'm going to play only paper", and I do, rock will always lose when played. That strategy can still win over several moves, if I am not transparent; all I have to do is correctly predict that my opponent will predict that the current round is the one in which I change my strategy.
If they believe (through expressed preferences, assuming that they independently try to win each round) that rock will lose against me, rock will win against them.