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Normal_Anomaly comments on Self Improvement - Broad vs Focused - Less Wrong Discussion

8 Post author: Raemon 31 December 2010 03:39PM

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Comment author: Normal_Anomaly 31 December 2010 07:03:21PM 2 points [-]

I support the idea of deciding on places to keep things. I have several small objects I need to keep with me (wallet, phone, iPod, appointment book) and I avoid losing them by always putting them in the same pockets. This also works for some members of my family who have your same problem.

Comment author: [deleted] 01 January 2011 02:35:47PM 0 points [-]

This is what I do.

Also, don't be afraid to be stubborn and set in your ways. It really helps to own only one of something (one purse/backpack/tote, for instance) and always use it. Have a spot where you use your laptop and always use it there. Refuse to buy expensive and fragile things most of the time, and if you do buy something fragile get a case for it and a special routine for protecting it. If you're frequently losing/breaking things, that means you're not used to devoting mental energy to your possessions; so you should reduce the amount you need to think about them.