Re: MIT... well, I went there, but it was >20 years ago, so I can't speak to what it's like now with any significant credibility. That said, I am at least peripherally involved in its social milieu... in fact, I'm having my wedding reception there later this year... so I guess I'm not completely disconnected.
The impression I get is that the "praise-free zone" nature of the place hasn't changed and isn't likely to. There's a strong cultural bias towards what I think of as the UNIX attitude towards feedback -- "there's no reason to provide any return values on success; if something had gone wrong we would have told you" -- which means that creating your own reward structure is an important skill.
I, and a lot of other people my age, are currently facing a pretty big life decision -- where to go to college. Since this is probably going to have a pretty big impact on my life, I'd like to get some more information on this.
Seeing as a lot of people here have probably made this choice already, gone through with some of the consequences of it, and are rational, I decided to ask here.
My current considerations are: