In this case no, the person does want me to drive, the conflict comes from eir arrogance and social debt I owe em. I've made some progress in communicating my concerns to em, so that's good at least. My comment was more of a frustration that the good advice to get away in fact would exacerbate my current predictament in some sense.
I've been trying to learn how to drive and unfortunately I suck at it. Some combination of a stressful teacher and hyperfocusing have made it very difficult to learn. My biggest problem is with the multitasking aspect. Remembering to put on the turn signal while stopping and and checking my speed and watching out for other cars, etc. It's difficult for me, I forget or miss things. One thing I was considering may possibly help is using dual n-back to boost my working memory. Does anyone have any thoughts on the likely effectiveness of this?