A perfect parable for learning social skills. The consequences for social failures nowadays, like those for getting shot with a paint ball, are not the death that our instincts expect.
Yep. There are negative consequences in both cases - rejection and social awkwardness in one, stinging welts and possibly losing a game in the other- but the long term consequences are worth it.
Link: wired.com/wiredscience/2011/09/how-should-we-make-hard-decisions/