For people who use pseudonyms, would you care to explain why you chose yours?
I use it elsewhere, including sometimes in real life. Here are the general reasons I chose the name:
You don't want to choose a name that starts with a vowel, because they are hard to understand. For example if I said "I'm Arya," or "My name's Arya." A good percentage of people would confuse where the name actually started and hear "I'm Marya" (Maria) or "My name's Sarya" (maybe Soraya?). (I learned this the hard way a couple years ago with a different name) So you want your name to either be very common, or to start with a clear consonant.
Having an unusual name allows the person you are talking to to ask you about it. It allows them to start a conversation with you ("Daenerys? That's an unusual name. Where did you get it?")
Having a name that is an somewhat-rare reference to something interesting causes people to feel an instantaneous kinship with you if they happen to "get it". Unfortunately, this hasn't worked too well for me, as I've only met a handful of people IRL who caught the reference when I introduced myself.
As to what the reference is to, it's to one of my favorite book series; "Game of Thrones" by George RR Martin. I actually like the character Arya better, but I've already mentioned why that name won't work. Daenerys is a bad-a$$ chick with an army and dragons. It works. :)
Unfortunately, this hasn't worked too well for me, as I've only met a handful of people IRL who caught the reference when I introduced myself.
Alicorn and I were both immediately inclined to like you when you started commenting, due to the name =)
One of the things I loved about studying liberal arts is that you actually got to know your professors. They would discuss their personal experiences in a topic ("Here's what I did during the feminist movement.."), you might get slide shows from their vacation in the country of study, or even invited to their house for a group dinner.
Going into engineering was rather jarring for me in that regard. The vast majority of professors would come to class, lecture on the topic, and that would be it. They might share what their specific field of study was, but they rarely shared any personal details. It actually made it harder for me to learn, because it was like "Who is this person who is talking to me?"
(I think a large part of this for me personally was because I am motivated by a desire to please, and so if I liked my professors, then I wouldn't want to inconvenience them by handing things in late, or bore them by giving them another sub-par paper to read. But that's another discussion...)
I've noticed that Less Wrong is similar in some ways. We may know about each other's views on particular topics, and general fields of study, but we know very little about each other as people, unless a personal topic happens to be related to a particular rationalist study. Even the intro thread set up here focuses mainly on non-personal information.
For example, a Generic Intro post right now would be something like: "I'm X years old. From place Y. The fields I study/want to study are Z. Here's what college/HS was/is like for me. I have akrasia." Pretty boring, right? INSTEAD, the things I would be interested in knowing about my fellow LWers include: "On my time off I enjoy underwater basketweaving and climbing Mt Kilamanjaro. I have 6 young daughters and a dog named Grrr. I love pesto. etc"
From a rational perspective, an argument could be made that it's easier to have constructive arguments that remain civil when you humanize the people you are speaking with.
I was wondering how other LWers feel on the subject. Do you like that our discussions are un-hampered by personal data? Do you like the idea of providing personal intros? Do you not want to provide personalish information for safety reasons, or because you don't think it's anyone business?
If you think you might need help writing a personal intro, I wrote [a general guide](http://lesswrong.com/lw/8nq/more_personal_introductions/5d4e) on the topic in the comments below.
Note: I predict there will be two types of response to this post. People discussing how they feel about this (Meta-Comments), and people giving personal introductions (Intros). To make navigating the responses easier, I am trying an experiment where I set up a meta-comment thread and a personal introduction thread.
PLEASE PLACE COMMENTS ABOUT THIS IDEA IN META-COMMENT THREAD, AND COMMENTS INTRODUCING YOURSELF IN INTRO THREAD.
Edited to make it more clear to focus on personality, hobbies, likes/dislikes, and NOT on what you study, or school.
ETA- Added link to "How to Write Personal Intro" comment