You don't necessarily lose status by admitting that you do things that people only do to prove how high status they are.
Interestingly, this seems to only apply in rationalist communities. While I think it's a good norm for encouraging truth-seeking, it seems bad for winning to let each-other off the hook too easily.
Interestingly, this seems to only apply in rationalist communities.
I wouldn't say that. It applies in a significant proportion of communities with a self help emphasis and the overwhelming majority of those that are focused on dating.
While I think it's a good norm for encouraging truth-seeking, it seems bad for winning to let each-other off the hook too easily.
There isn't any letting each other off the hook involved. Doing things just to signal your status is a basic social skill and not something to be ashamed of.
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Interesting, my model of Robin Hanson had him say something about the blackout and how it shows people are hypocrites. Though obviously he has strong opinions on intellectual property. I think it would have been a good idea to Blackout LessWrong today. It would have given us a status boost in most of the communities we frequent.