I also think that HJPEV is a unsufferable little twat / horrible little jerk, but I love LW and have donated hundreds of dollars to SIAI.
Got a similar reaction. Well, except the donating dollars part. Though I'm not bothered so much by the way that HJPEV interacts with people but rather by his unique-snowflake/superhero/God-wannabe complex.
I intended Leveling Up in Rationality to communicate this:
But some people seem to have read it and heard this instead:
This failure (on my part) fits into a larger pattern of the Singularity Institute seeming too arrogant and (perhaps) being too arrogant. As one friend recently told me:
So, I have a few questions: