I still don't get what's actually supposed to be wrong about being arrogant. In all the examples I've found of actual arrogance it seems a good and sensible reaction when justified, and in the alleged cases of it casuing bad outcomes it never actualy is the arrogance itself that does, there is just an overconfidence causing both the arrogance and bad outcome. Is this just some social tabo because it *correlates with overconfidence?
If I behave arrogantly and as a consequence other people are less willing/able to coordinate effectively with me, would you consider that a bad outcome? If so, do you believe that never happens? Or would you say that in that case the cause of the bad outcome is other people's reactions to my arrogance, rather than the arrogance itself? Or something else?
I intended Leveling Up in Rationality to communicate this:
But some people seem to have read it and heard this instead:
This failure (on my part) fits into a larger pattern of the Singularity Institute seeming too arrogant and (perhaps) being too arrogant. As one friend recently told me:
So, I have a few questions: