These are written from the angle that Christians deconverting is bad.
Breaking up because a relationship with God becomes unworkable
Leaving because other Christians aren't empathetic about doubt
It looks as though there may be more articles in the series.
I think Luke is more an expert on the subject, but I think William Rowe's argument ( on luke's old site ) covers the "mysterious ways" quite well. I remember William Craig trying to come up with a terrible argument about animals not feeling "proper" pain to try to circumvent the problem.
Let's wait for the true expert to step in, though ;)