A math student/coder I met at an entrepreneurship event told me Less Wrong had good ideas but was "too pretentious".
This person might have been in the same place as a math grad student I know. They read a little Less Wrong and were turned off. Then they attended a LW-style rationality seminar and responded positively, because it was more "compassionate". What they mean is this: A typical epistemology post on Less Wrong might sound something like
There are laws of probability; you can't just make up beliefs.
(That's not a quote.) Whereas the seminar sounded more like
We'll always have uncertainty, and we'll never be perfectly calibrated, but we can aspire to be better-calibrated.
Similarly, an instrumental-rationality post here might sound like
To the extent you fail to maximize some utility function, you can be Dutch-booked. Give me a penny to switch between these two gambles; give me another penny to switch back again. There: You have given me your two cents on the matter.
Whereas the seminar sounds more like
You must decide alone.
But you are not alone.
Of course, both approaches are good and necessary, and you can find both on Less Wrong.
I have several questions related to this:
If you visit any Less Wrong page for the first time in a cookies-free browsing mode, you'll see this message for new users:
Here are the worst violators I see on that about page:
And on the sequences page:
This seems obviously false to me.
These may not seem like cultish statements to you, but keep in mind that you are one of the ones who decided to stick around. The typical mind fallacy may be at work. Clearly there is some population that thinks Less Wrong seems cultish, as evidenced by Google's autocomplete, and these look like good candidates for things that makes them think this.
We can fix this stuff easily, since they're both wiki pages, but I thought they were examples worth discussing.
In general, I think we could stand more community effort being put into improving our about page, which you can do now here. It's not that visible to veteran users, but it is very visible to newcomers. Note that it looks as though you'll have to click the little "Force reload from wiki" button on the about page itself for your changes to be published.