You aren't necessarily stuck anywhere. How the statement "I want to talk to Brian" gets unpacked once the wish has been implemented depends on how "control" gets unpacked. Any statement we make about sensory experiences we wish to have involve control only on one conceptual level. We can't control what Brian says once we're talking to him, but we never specified that we wanted control over it either. I think that you wind up with a conflict where you ask for control on the wrong conceptual level, or two different levels conflict. I'm having trouble coming up with examples though.