That was my first thought too. Does it mean that I am a negative person? Does it mean that I would be fired?
By the way I do agree with some of the assumptions. Giving positive feedback is good, and people who don't provide it regularly should learn it. It's just... when someone is forced to behave positively way above their "natural" level (which can also change day to day), it can be a painful experience. But where the positivity is mandatory or a strong social norm, even admitting that this kind of pain exists is in a strong conflict with the social norm. A social norm of positive thinking also opens door to different kinds of abuse, where saying "no" can be framed as negativity and punished.
Basically: humans will find ways to hurt each other real bad and will produce vicious cycles of misery no matter how you frame their interactions; there's no magic bullet of human social organization. If we want Eutopia - after we make our common shithole a little less bad within the limits of our nature (otherwise we'll slide into dystopia real easy, no UFAI needed) - we have to rewire stuff on the biological level. Transhumanism of some kind is logically inevitable and ethically neccessary no matter your objections to it.
For most types of morals, it's not possible to get into a state of moral satisfaction while remaining ourselves.
From the Harvard Business Review, an article entitled: "Can We Reverse The Stanford Prison Experiment?"
By: Greg McKeown
Posted: June 12, 2012
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Summary:
Royal Canadian Mounted Police attempt a program where they hand out "Positive Tickets"
This idea can be applied to Real Life