I have never really used a budget. I want to try, even though I make enough and spend little enough that it's not an active problem. I've been pointed to YNAB... but one review says "YNAB is not for you if ... [you’re] not in debt, you don’t live paycheck to paycheck and you save money fast enough. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it." I have data on Mint for a year, so I have a description of my spending. The part I'm confused about is the specifics of deciding what normatively I "should" spend in various categories. My current plan is problematic because it has a large upfront cost which I keep putting off: going over all categories of where my dollars go, estimating the relative marginal benefit per dollar I get for each, and rebalancing spending appropriately. I have three main questions:
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