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shminux comments on Parenting and Happiness - Less Wrong Discussion

20 Post author: jkaufman 03 October 2012 01:43PM

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Comment author: shminux 03 October 2012 04:43:16PM 0 points [-]

Your analysis clearly shows that there is no way to predict how happy you will be with your decision. Which means only one thing: if you feel like having children, do, otherwise don't. No need to over-think it.

Comment author: wedrifid 04 October 2012 03:45:56PM *  2 points [-]

Your analysis clearly shows that there is no way to predict how happy you will be with your decision. Which means only one thing: if you feel like having children, do, otherwise don't. No need to over-think it.

Assuming for a second that the analysis shows what you say it does it still doesn't mean that one thing. It would mean that the statistics about the effect of children on happiness aren't enough to base your decision on. It would mean that when making one of the most fundamentally life changing decisions you can make you will have to use different information than happiness trends. "Happiness" is far from the only metric with which to reason about a decision.

Unless your ability to reason is absolutely abysmal you probably are better off researching and "thinking" about important life choices. Especially when you have good reason to question whether your instincts are aligned with your own reflectively considered preferences on a subject.

Comment author: Jayson_Virissimo 04 October 2012 12:37:23PM 1 point [-]

Your analysis clearly shows that there is no way to predict how happy you will be with your decision. Which means only one thing: if you feel like having children, do, otherwise don't. No need to over-think it.

No, there is a way.

Comment author: diegocaleiro 04 October 2012 05:05:18AM 1 point [-]

How about the hours you won't have to yourself, and the extra hours of work you have to put in to pay for the child, adolescent, young adult, or LWer later?