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1) Unless you are considering surgical or hormonal modification, there is no reason you can't change your mind later - though it does get confusing to others, that's far less important than your comfort.
2) It's okay to be in a socially in-between state. There are other identifications, such as http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genderqueer
This is really more a matter of preference than a problem that can be solved through logic.
Our society is not very accepting of people who don't fit into gender roles. Hormonal modification is necessary to "pass". Also, hormonal modification is much more effective the earlier you start.
If it is society's acceptance you are after, it would be easiest to present as the gender that you display physically.
Society's preferences will clash with your own in this regard. You have to decide the extent to which you care about that. Societal advancement is slower than technological advancement, and it is likely that the technology to pass completely will be available before society gets to a point where they do not judge people who don't fit gender roles.
Have you tried presenting as the "other" gender socially for a few months? How did it suit you?
Also, have you considered that you might reverse the transition, if you change your mind? (Assuming you have the money)
That's just another issue to throw into the pot, and then decide whether it matters and how much, and what options exist for dealing with it.