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Comment author: jooyous 15 February 2013 08:42:40PM *  3 points [-]

I never thought the smileys with noses were inherently manly, but I do think that smileys without noses result in a cuter face, which may explain that correlation if we assume that cuteness ideals are shared by most people.

These confessions of textual insecurities are enlightening and endearing. =] I had no idea guys worried about this stuff until yesterday. We should do this more often!

Comment author: NancyLebovitz 15 February 2013 09:46:59PM 2 points [-]

When I use a smiley, it's noseless, but it's because I don't think the hyphen adds information. How geeky!

Comment author: bbleeker 19 February 2013 10:01:41AM 0 points [-]

I use smileys with a nose, but that's probably just because I'm old, and that's how I first learned them. :-)

Comment author: Kaj_Sotala 17 February 2013 05:16:57PM 0 points [-]

I either give a smiley a nose or not, depending on what looks better given the default font that the places uses. I think that on LW ":)", looks pretty squished-together and hard to even make out, so here I use ":-)" instead.

(It has always struck me as a little weird that nobody else seems to do this - if they use smilies at all, it's either always with a nose or always noseless. But then, my active vocabulary for emoticons tends to be broader than that of most folks in any case.)

Comment author: jooyous 17 February 2013 08:59:11PM *  0 points [-]

Oh yeah, the ^_^ face looks bad in some of the wider fonts.

I sometimes feel that pull to adopt something as a convention because it seems reasonable to me. But then I realize that it's not really a convention if no one understands or follows it, and it requires a lot of work to explain and popularize. So I'm always left reminding my own brain of its pointlessness despite its ... seeming reasonableness. For (a California-specific) example, I always want to signal left in a left-turn lane to let the people behind me to know that I'm going to U-turn. But I'm probably the only person that does that so people behind me just figure I didn't turn my signal off or whatever. =/

I think people who regularly talk to you probably pick up on your smiley meanings intuitively; people hopefully don't regularly drive behind me.