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Comment author: magfrump 15 February 2013 09:26:54PM 3 points [-]

I agree with you, but:

they do do it and just don't realize it because it comes more naturally.

I might suspect that for many people on Less Wrong this does not come as naturally as it does to most people :P

Comment author: jooyous 15 February 2013 09:36:14PM *  1 point [-]

You know, I was just about to make a poll about this! But I'm on an iPad, so that's a bad idea.

Do you think a lot of LW people are bad at those cues in real life? Do you think they actively resent having to be good at them in real life as well? I figured LW-ers would recognize the utility of these messages out in meatspace, but it might have just not crossed their mind.

Comment author: magfrump 16 February 2013 06:02:58PM 3 points [-]

I'd rather not speculate about "a lot of LW people," since I am just one person and I'm not making observations about myself, per se.

But I have at least one friend in real life who struggles with social cues and I think she'd be pretty excited to find an environment where she didn't have to deal with them. So I'd imagine there are people with different perspectives on it, some of them actively against it, some passively supportive of the current setup, and some unaware that there's a decision being made, and I have no idea how to distinguish how many of each. I guess a poll would be appropriate.

Comment author: jooyous 16 February 2013 07:31:58PM *  1 point [-]

I sort of assumed that even people who struggle with social cues would understand their instrumental value, at least on an intellectual level. But there's definitely a typical mind component in that thinking because I know nothing about the social lives of most LW-ers or the average LW-er and how much they interact with humans in meatspace and how they feel about it.

So I thought more about this poll and realized I would need one of those "strongly agree -- strongly disagree" matrices to get any good results. Which is an even heftier undertaking.