but it seems on current evidence to be that a lot of people are mindkilled about whether or not politics is in fact a mindkiller.
Maybe the "mindkiller" business is largely a rationalization for the opposition to political discussion, and not the motivation for the opposition.
Some people like having their ideas questioned in a group, some don't. Mindkiller talk is a convenient rationalization for those who don't like it to pressure those who do like it to shut up.
As Multiheaded added, "Personal is Political" stuff like gender relations, etc also may belong here.