self-sophistry in attempt to fool the lie detector
Ontopic: most people count it as cheating, IIRC, but then some people count almost anything as cheating.
Offtopic: does anyone know if that actually works? I know I'm generally aware of when I'm deliberately manipulating the truth; indeed, it's actually easier (in my experience and according to conversations with a friend) to loose track of when you're telling them something you actually made up, as if it were the truth (I assume this would help with most forms of lie-detection.) OTOH, I know nothing about lie detection of any kind.
Ontopic: most people count it as cheating, IIRC, but then some people count almost anything as cheating.
You mean “most people count [dirty talk] as cheating [when you're in a relationship with someone else]”? Or “most people count [self-sophistry in attempt to fool lie detectors] as cheating [when taking surveys]”? If the former, yes, but then most people would count French kissing as cheating, too, whereas virtually no-one would count is as sex. If the latter... I don't think such people give a damn whether they are cheating, or if they did they'd also...
From The New York Times:
So how sketchy is the research on human sexual behavior, anyway?