Wei Dai's wording makes it sound like identity formation is something LW is placing special emphasis on, which doesn't appear to me to be the case.
EY's wholehearted endorsement of the New York chapter's bonding rituals.
I wonder if it's pertinent that Eliezer doesn't live in New York City?
http://www.urticator.net/essay/0/48.html
Might be a useful read apropos of Wei Dai's recent question: