A good place to start the search is the intersection of "things I find enjoyable" and "things that are scarce / in demand".
See which time discounts and distance discounts you make for how much you care about others. Compare how much you care about others with how much you care about you. act accordingly.
To know what you care about in the first place, either assess happiness at random times and activities, or go through Connection Theory and Goal factoring.
If it's worth saying, but not worth its own post (even in Discussion), then it goes here.