I agree that approaching strangers is more frowned upon, say, in Japan. Perhaps 'rest of the western world' would have been a better choice of words.
You have the totally wrong sense of what I meant by ordinary. Try fitting what you said into the definition "both normal and healthy"; it doesn't.
A person can be poorly psychologically calibrated for their environment without being defective and in need of change.
Defectiveness is really a subject that I'd prefer to keep out of any equation which is talking about people. Anyway, as far as I can see 'in need of change' holds true as long as said reaction impacts on your ability to live an effective and satisfying life. Personally my impression is that any major repression of emotions leads to personal problems (of the 'excessively cold / unable or unwilling to relate' kind).
They're also less likely to agree that their lives would be improved by doing it more frequently with strangers.
People are disinclined to agree with a number of propositions that seem to hold true, particularly regarding social interactions and universal human faults. Mere disagreement doesn't really constitute any evidence against those propositions.
I do understand, though, that introverts general preference for planned, controlled actions and everything fitting together as far as possible, would lead to disliking interaction with strangers, But as far as I can see, extroverts and introverts both need to try and balance themselves by taking on the virtues demonstrated by their opposites. I don't regard introversion and extraversion as value neutral, rather, I regard them both as lopsided.
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Sure, I'll read that IFF you read The Successful Self. It's certainly true that I find introverts frustrating -- sometimes it seems like the world is divided into those who get it but can't relate to me (Introverts) and those who can relate to me but don't get it (Extraverts)*.
* (for most given values of 'it')
Sure, I'll read that IFF you read The Successful Self.
I'll see if it's in my library network.
r/Fitness does a weekly "Moronic Monday", a judgment-free thread where people can ask questions that they would ordinarily feel embarrassed for not knowing the answer to. I thought this seemed like a useful thing to have here - after all, the concepts discussed on LessWrong are probably at least a little harder to grasp than those of weightlifting. Plus, I have a few stupid questions of my own, so it doesn't seem unreasonable that other people might as well.