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Comment author: Vaniver 16 July 2013 12:22:14AM *  10 points [-]

What are good sources for "rational" (or at least not actively harmful) advice on relationships?

What sort of relationships? Business? Romantic? Domestic? Shared hobby?

The undercurrent that runs along good advice for most is "make your presence a pleasant influence in the other person's life." (This is good advice for only some business relationships.)

Comment author: Dorikka 16 July 2013 01:56:24AM 3 points [-]

If you know of a reference of similar quality to the one I mention here but for platonic relationships, I would appreciate the referral. The book that I mentioned touches on such, but I think it intends to somewhat focus on romance.

Comment author: Vaniver 16 July 2013 10:00:41PM 0 points [-]

I don't, but I do appreciate your referral of that book.

Comment author: FiftyTwo 16 July 2013 05:37:58PM 1 point [-]

I was implicitly referring to romantic ones. I imagine a lot of the advice would overlap, but the quality of advice for those is particularly bad.