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Comment author: sixes_and_sevens 05 August 2013 09:34:47AM *  13 points [-]

This came up at yesterday's London meetup: activities for keeping oneself relatable to other human beings.

We were dissecting motives behind goals, and one of mine was maintaining interests that other people could relate to. I have more pedestrian interests, but they're the first to get dropped when my time is constrained (which it usually is), so if I end up meeting someone out in the wild, all I have to talk about is stuff like natural language parsing, utilitarian population ethics and patterns of conspicuous consumption.

Discussing it in a smaller group later, it turns out I'm not the only person who does this. It makes sense that insular, scholarly people of a sort found on LW may frequently find themselves withdrawn from common cultural ground with other people, so I thought I'd kick off a discussion on the subject.

What do you do to keep yourself relatable to other people?

EDIT: Just to clarify, this isn't a request for advice on how to talk to people. Please don't interpret it as such.

Comment author: Qiaochu_Yuan 05 August 2013 02:35:22PM *  2 points [-]

Obvious options are consuming popular culture, e.g. popular TV shows, music, or sports. There's a lot of good TV out there these days so it shouldn't be hard to get hooked on at least one show you can talk to a lot of people about (Game of Thrones?).

If you really insist on the "you do" part, I don't do anything with this explicit goal. I just talk.