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Viliam_Bur comments on Open thread, August 26 - September 1, 2013 - Less Wrong Discussion

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Comment author: diegocaleiro 28 August 2013 11:20:41AM *  8 points [-]

What are the reasons to go to family meetings, and meet the subset of family members who happen to be (1) Stupid (2) Religious (3) Non-rationalists (4) Absolutely clueless about reality (5) Pushy about inserting their ideas/ideals/weltenshaaung/motifs into you?

Of the top of my mind: [1] Avoid losing inheritance money [2] Avoid losing reputation with related family members who are not so silly [3] Avoid losing reputation with other people who may give you inheritance money [4] It is an investment in the far future, if you break a leg, or something, family members are more likely to take you to a hospital

These 4 reasons do not seem sufficient to me. Personally I don't think (a) You owe them, for their past good deeds towards you (b) Sharing genes is an important property or (c) One should love one's relatives.... have any truth in them. So do you have any extra arguments besides the 4 above that may be more convincing? Or should I abdicate the meetings alltogether?

Comment author: Viliam_Bur 31 August 2013 05:04:09PM *  5 points [-]

They keep you well calibrated about the level of insanity in the society. They allow you to not only have a good model of the society, but to also feel it on a gut level.

Comment author: Ben_LandauTaylor 03 September 2013 02:25:52PM 2 points [-]

Upvoted because it's true and relevant, but there are much, much cheaper ways to achieve that goal.

Comment author: Mestroyer 15 September 2013 01:48:39PM 0 points [-]

Facebook, for example.