See I don't understand why Christians think the trinity is a contradiction. "God is one person, composed of three other persons." makes as much sense as "The China brain is one person, composed of a billion people" or "a subset is a set that is part of another set". In programming, it's easy to create an object that belongs to class X while also having component parts that belong to class X.
The problem is that the options you just alluded to are probably heresy: I think subordinationism on one side and modalistic monarchianism on the other.
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